Forgiveness and Cheating II

It seems a lot of the traffic to my blog of late has been dealing with the issue of forgiveness and cheating. Now I do now know what the motiviation behind each individual was when they came to my blog and what they expected to find but I can say this much that cheating is as much a fact of life as anything else. By cheating I do not narrow myself to any specific case of cheating but use it in a very broad sense whereby the word "cheating" means to use wrong means to achieve an end, whatever that end maybe. Cheating will almost always involve someone that is harmed in the process, it need not necessarily be someone else it could even be you as is depicted my previous post (click here). Once the vile deed has been done there is no way to change things back to the way they are, so you will have to resign yourself to accepting how things are now. However, that does not mean you can't do anything about it. That is where the act of forgivness comes in. How you go about asking for that is really upto you but you must keep asking yourself honestly that, have you done enough to forgiven? Sometimes your actions would suffice but at others it won't but you can take consolation in the fact that you have done your best to make things better by accepting your fallibility and showing you are human.