The Trinity

No this is not going to be about some religious doctrine, I leave that to other people my job is simpler and that is to show you all a different way of looking at things. Three things very important to the survival of the human psyche; self-confidence, self-belief, and self-esteem/respect. They are the pillars upon which the human anima stands. Pull one out and the man comes crashing down, leave one out and you have an incomplete personality. Without one of them a person can be left thoroughly destablised. Each is needed, and in the right amounts, to give birth to a well-balanced human being. Why are they so important? Well for starters, when a tough time comes these are the first things that are attacked and quite brutally too. We have all heard how an experience has dented one's confidence, belief or value of themselves so it is really important that we preserve and protect these jewels of ours (men don't go about thinking of your family jewels this is a different jewel).

If you lack confidence in your ability then it is very likely that you won't be able carry out certain tasks because you think you are inadequate or whatever excuse you have but the truth is that your own low view of your abilities hampers you from going about it in a successful manner. You also need to have a good sense of your worth, and what you bring to the table in any situation, a true analysis is needed and having a low self-esteem is not helpful and does not constitute a true analysis. This also roughly translates as to how you respect yourself, because if you have a low self-esteem then chances are that you would be highly critical of yourself and just as you look down upon others who make mistake you may beat yourself to death in the same process. Above all I think self-belief is the most important, a strong belief would suffice to take anyone through any tough circumstance as long as he holds onto his beliefs. An unshakeable belief in yourself that "you can do this" helps a lot and takes one a very long way.

I do not advocate people to go over the top in their evaluations of themselves just as I would now recommend them to have a lower than actually expected value of themselves. One must sit through this time and take a good hard look at themselves and face the toughest questions in their life because nothing gets tougher than evaluating one's own self.

This post is made to all those people who are having a hard time but above all I had three people in mind when I wrote it. Their initials are as follows:

RM
IR
HI

Hope you guys find this helpful and if you do then do let me know.