Mars and Venus
Aaah the age old debate between the two genders; the battle of the sexes; clash of the titans. Call it what you like but one thing is for sure, there always will be a difference of opinion between the two parties. Men accuse women of being too soft and women accuse men of being insensitive. Neither attribute befitting the accuser and aptly describing the guilty party in the eyes of the other. One thing is for sure you can't live without either one of them. Men need women just as much as women need men. Why then animosity then? Keeping in lieu of my KISS principle I would say there is a gross misunderstanding, a lack of faith on both sides, and irresponsibility and that neither side is willing to put in the effort to rectify the problem. Why they do not want to do that I believe is the over-dependency on one's current set of beliefs and the fear of letting them go. "What is I am wrong about them?" they think. The fear of being proved wrong only exacerbates the problem. I say step out of your comfort zone and really give the other pary a chance. Easier said than done, even for myself. So what does a successful relationship constitute of? Why one only has to take a look around and notice that the key ingredient is trust and willingness. A willingness to understand.
I have heard all too often from women that men are cheats and can't be trusted. I ask them why? They fail to come up with a logical answer and usually the answer is "'Cuz they just are, look you won't understand 'cuz you're a guy and you need to be a gal to understand." Ok then, tell me whatever you can, you know I am not an idiot and did manage to finish off college successfully, I can understand, I am sure of it ! The harsh reality is women themselves do not know why they hate men, but ladies you forget when a guy cheats on his partner ..... well he needs someone to help him cheat ! Usually, that is another woman. Why blame guys when you can blame women as well? They have just as big a hand as the guy maybe bigger.
If a guy finds his partner cheating on him, the guy usually directs his wrath towards the other man and THEN the woman. This I note is because guys are generally more macho and to win the woman's heart again they have to prove who is the bigger man and that usually means another fight. Once that is done away with neatly the guy directs his wrath at his woman. Guys you have to understand that you won't achieve much by bashing the other guy's head out and also your woman. For crying out loud choose one and move on ! A word of advice guys please do not always think of entering a girl's pants for once view her as she wants to be viewed; as a person and not a sex object !
With all said and done I still believe the two factions should try to be more open with each other and more understanding and also understand your responsibilities in that relationship. It's very easy to run away from the problem but much harder to actually face it and fight it.
I have heard all too often from women that men are cheats and can't be trusted. I ask them why? They fail to come up with a logical answer and usually the answer is "'Cuz they just are, look you won't understand 'cuz you're a guy and you need to be a gal to understand." Ok then, tell me whatever you can, you know I am not an idiot and did manage to finish off college successfully, I can understand, I am sure of it ! The harsh reality is women themselves do not know why they hate men, but ladies you forget when a guy cheats on his partner ..... well he needs someone to help him cheat ! Usually, that is another woman. Why blame guys when you can blame women as well? They have just as big a hand as the guy maybe bigger.
If a guy finds his partner cheating on him, the guy usually directs his wrath towards the other man and THEN the woman. This I note is because guys are generally more macho and to win the woman's heart again they have to prove who is the bigger man and that usually means another fight. Once that is done away with neatly the guy directs his wrath at his woman. Guys you have to understand that you won't achieve much by bashing the other guy's head out and also your woman. For crying out loud choose one and move on ! A word of advice guys please do not always think of entering a girl's pants for once view her as she wants to be viewed; as a person and not a sex object !
With all said and done I still believe the two factions should try to be more open with each other and more understanding and also understand your responsibilities in that relationship. It's very easy to run away from the problem but much harder to actually face it and fight it.
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